Although I
understand why "Don't You Dare Read This, Mrs. Dunphrey" was banned in Galt
schools, I do not think the decision was justified.
In the novel, 15-year-old Tish writes about
her life for a journal assignment she receives in her English class. If Tish does
not want her teacher, Mrs. Dunphrey , to read a specific entry, she is given the option to
mark the passage with "Do not read this." Tish makes most of her entries
private, and her teacher respects her choices.
The contents of her entries are apparently
what stirred the Galt controversy. For instance:
Tish's problems mostly revolve around her
divorced parents. She lives with her mother and 8-year-old brother, Matt.
Although her father used to live with them, Tish describes him as being abusive and
uninvolved in her life. When he returns, he wreaks havoc on her family. When
he leaves again, this time for good, the situation worsens even further.
Tish also faces sexual harassment at her
part-time job at a local fast food restaurant, when the assistant manager, Bud, asks her
on a date and she refuses. Bud tries to cut back Tish's work hours, but she
complains to her manager. When her manager quits, Bud fires her.
One of Tish's friends shoplifts at the
mall. Although Tish does not condone her friend's actions, she too shoplifts, but
does so only to provide food for her family. This does not make shoplifting
acceptable and Tish acknowledges this in her journal.
Tish also is in the process of grieving the
death of her grandmother, who once acted as her primary caretaker. Without her
grandmother's support, Tish's thoughts turn increasingly negative. At one point,
Tish thinks about borrowing a gun to "scare her parents into talking to each
other." Other than this comment, Tish makes no overtly violent statements, nor
does she ever act violently.
In the meantime, Tish's mother decides to
travel to another state in search of Tish's father. She leaves Tish and her brother
for more than two months, during which time Tish acts as both parent and child, taking
care of herself and her brother with her own money.
At the close of the novel, Tish writes a
note in her journal to her English teacher and asks for help. Mrs. Dunphrey arranges
for Tish and her brother to be placed in the care of their long-lost paternal
grandparents, and they are eventually reunited with their mother.
Tish's problems seem extreme because she
faces so many of them at the same time, but in actuality, each of her woes is realistic
and could affect any teenager. Young readers have the opportunity to learn a lot
from Tish - when life becomes hard, she perseveres. She handles her problems with a
relative amount of grace and does eventually seek adult help. Other girls might
attempt to make their problems disappear by indulging in self-destructive behaviors, but
Tish never does.
Her actions might serve as a model for
teenagers in situations similar to hers - but only if these teens are given the
opportunity to read the book.
| SOURCE: Sacramento
Bee, December 19, 2003 |
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